Let Me Introduce You To Stacy Farrell

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I am currently reviewing a new product by Stacy Farrell and the Homeschool Adventure Co. This new product is a critical analysis journal on C.S. Lewis’ book Mere Christianity. I love this book, so I was excited about the opportunity to review Stacy’s book. I will be sharing more about the journal later… so stay tuned 😉

Today I want to introduce you to the author.

Stacy answered a few questions for us…

SF Author Interview

 

* When planning a new book, how do you go about planning for it? Do you have a method you use, or is each one different? 

Proverbs 16:9 declares: “In his heart, a man makes his plans, but the Lord determines his steps.” If you had asked me this question 20 years ago, I would have told you how I outlined and scheduled and planned. I’m a planner by nature. However, I have learned the hard way that “unless the Lord builds the house, the workers labor in vain” (Psalm 127:1).

Each book I have written for Home School Adventure Co. has a unique story behind it—and not one would have been completed without the support of many faithful prayer warriors.

* Do you have a certain writing space, somewhere you go *just* to write your books? An office, a lake cabin, a hotel? What do you love about that space? How does it inspire you?

Writing resources for Home School Adventure Co. has pretty much demanded everything I can give to it (and more!). So, wherever I go, my writing goes with me.

I am especially grateful to my sons for helping me lug around the backpack and bags that contain my laptop and research materials.

* What would you say to a young person who aspires to be a writer? What advice would you give? Also, what would you tell his/her parents in order to help them be supportive in their child’s efforts to pursue writing as a career?

Writing is hard work. Sometimes inspiration hits and the words simply flow. However, the writer who consistently writes can ultimately surpass a more talented writer who waits for the Muse before picking up his or her pen (or keyboard).

Think of eternity, always. Imagine that moment when you will stand before God and give an account for what you have done with the talents He entrusted to you. Let that guide all your decisions.

Parents, encourage your students to write every day. Then take the time to read and comment on what they write. Even if you do not consider yourself a writer, surely you consider yourself a reader. What is clear? What is confusing? Applaud their efforts and tell them the truth.

* Would your advice be any different (from question #3) for an adult who would like to break into the business? How?

Pray. Listen. Obey.

“Count the cost.”

Luke 14:28 tells us to consider the price we must pay before undertaking a work, but there is also a cost associated with not undertaking a work to which He calls us.

That said, as parents and family members, we would be wise to maintain a measure of balance. Remember Solomon’s words: “The writing of many books is endless” (Ecc. 12:12). Books will pass away; people are eternal.

Do not allow your writing to interfere with your loving.

* What is your goal with writing? Is it the same with every book?

My goal for every book is the same as my goal for life. I pray that all my efforts help people more fully know and love Jesus.

* What other projects will you be working on in the near future?

In 2014, we hope to release a print edition of Philippians in 28 Weeks – King James Version.

What is one lesson you learned from writing this book?

Simple truth packs a punch.

In Mere Christianity, C. S. Lewis tackles some hefty questions. Yet, upon pondering his answers, I realized that much of what he says distills down to common sense.

(Voltaire would argue that “common sense is not so common.”)

What books have most influenced you?

Different books have impacted me during different seasons of my life.

* With all of the duties that you juggle, when do you fit in the time to write?

This is a great question. There is no denying that writing requires many sacrifices. Truth be told, all too often my sons have heard me say, “I need to concentrate. Please don’t talk to me right now!” However, because my sons need and deserve my focused attention during our school days, much of my writing is done before dawn (while my household sleeps), or late at night.

* What is the Scripture verse that you would call your favorite?

At a writer’s conference some years ago, I came to believe that Philippians 2:14-16 might be my “life verse.”

I could not pick a favorite verse, but I can say that I feel particularly convicted to live out Philippians 2:14-16:

“Do everything without grumbling or arguing,

so that you may become

blameless and pure,

children of God without fault

in a warped and crooked generation.

Then you will shine like stars in the sky

as you hold out the word of life.”

So there’s a little 411 on Stacy 🙂

Of course you can get to know here even better by checking out her blog: On Loving Jesus

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I look forward to sharing my thoughts later about the journal 🙂

Thine Ass Is Mine

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The title of this post is a quote from Imaginary Jesus. It’s a pretty good book… I have shared about it before here on my blog (Communion). The title of this post came from King-James Jesus after he kidnapped the talking donkey in order to bargain for her to rescue Magic-Eight-Ball Jesus.

When I was teaching Zoology at our Monday Co-op as we were learning about Ungulates and as we looked at the order Perissodactyla we discussed the donkey. As I prepared to teach I read:

Although donkeys have long been considered ignorant, they are actually quite intelligent creatures. They are not as easy to train as horses, because they seem to have a mind of their own and will not do anything that doesn’t seem like a good idea to them. They prefer to do things that are good for the donkey, which may not necessarily be good for the person who owns the donkey.
~ Apologia Exploring Creation with Zoology 3

Reading this reminded me that Jesus rode into Jerusalem on a donkey. I have been taught and have understood that Jesus chose a donkey because it was a poor man’s animal. It was not a king’s steed. It also was to fulfill the Scriptures. I believe all this is true… but I also now think that their might even have been more to the story.

 “Go into the village opposite you, and immediately you will find a donkey tied there and a colt with her; untie them and bring them to Me. If anyone says anything to you, you shall say, ‘The Lord has need of them,’ and immediately he will send them.” This took place to fulfill what was spoken through the prophet:
 “SAY TO THE DAUGHTER OF ZION,
‘BEHOLD YOUR KING IS COMING TO YOU,
GENTLE, AND MOUNTED ON A DONKEY,
EVEN ON A COLT, THE FOAL OF A BEAST OF BURDEN.’”
Matthew 21:2-5

Why the donkey?

Well if you think about it… we as humans can be stupid as a sheep and stubborn as a donkey. Not only was this a donkey, but it was a colt. It was immature, unridden, untrained…

I read this and I think of the description of this donkey and I realize how often I have been there. You know having a mind of my own and not willing to listen to instruction and not planning on doing anything that didn’t seem like a good idea to me…

I mean really, like anyone else might have a good idea?

How often do we see this in our church and in our homes?

No, sir, we need to go in this direction and your opinion of the matter is really irrelevant because it’s not what I personally had planned… so there is no point in even entertaining it…

No, honey, this is the way we need to do it and your idea on the matter doesn’t line up with mine and there is no way that your way could be better than mine… so just hush about it…

The donkey is always looking out for the donkey and he is not all that fired up or concerned about how it affects everyone else… including the one who owns him.

Hmmmmm am I hitting home yet?

The last time I checked my body, my mind, my soul, all belong to God… not me. When I accepted Christ and believed on Him and confessed Him as my Lord, I surrendered all that I am and ever will be to Him.

Or do you not know that your body is a temple
of the Holy Spirit who is in you,
whom you have from God,
and that you are not your own? 
For you have been bought with a price:
therefore glorify God in your body.
1 Corinthians 6:19-20

In light of this when was the last time you considered what was best for God, your owner. I have to admit that usually when I plan out my day, my future, when I get ideas… the majority of the time the focus is what is best for me. I consider what will work best in my schedule and with the way that I want it to go…

Then I ask God to make it to happen.

How quickly I forget “Thine ass is Mine

My life is not my own and it is not to be used for my glory or my benefit. Just as that donkey in the book of Matthew carried Jesus into Jerusalem, I am to be the carrier of Jesus the Christ into my Jerusalem, and Jesus is to lead and direct the way.

Likewise, in my home, my marriage, I am no longer my own.

For this reason a man shall leave his father and his mother,
and be joined to his wife;
and they shall become one flesh.
Genesis 2:24
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The wife does not have authority over her own body,
but the husband does;
and likewise also the husband does not have authority over his own body,
but the wife does.
1 Corinthians 7:4

 

In this marriage I am not to live to  myself. My ideas, my decisions, should not be based on what’s best for me, but what is best for my spouse and our marriage and our family. It’s not about me. I belong now to this marriage and to this family, to my husband… I am not my own and I must make decisions according to what is best for them… not just me.

Of course here’s the thing, I can’t do this on my own. I need Jesus there to control the reigns. As I carry the coverings of others on my back He must be the one who covers all of us… I can’t do it on my own.

I am immature, untrained, and unridden. My ideas, my way, may not be the best for others… usually they are not.

I am ingrained to resist authority and to seek my own personal wants and needs first in a self-protection kind of way. I have to have Christ leading me, growing me, steering me, indwelling me.

When I surrender my will to Him, He will help me surrender my will in the other areas of my life as well.

  And He went a little beyond them,
and fell on His face and prayed, saying,
“My Father, if it is possible, let this cup pass from Me;
yet not as I will, but as You will.”

Matthew 26:39

Living our lives with surrendered will does not mean that life will be a bed of roses for us… but it’s not about us. It’s about Him.

We have to trust that He knows what He is doing, where He is going, and He will see us safely there and through whatever comes our way. We must know that what lies ahead is going to be far greater than anything that lies behind.

I want this stubborn donkey of me to be broken, matured, and trained by my Owner, by the One who first surrendered all for me…

I want to be fully surrendered to Him.

Confession Time

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It’s been a while since I have read through the Bible from beginning to end. I am in the Word daily, but this is different… reading through the whole Book allows you to keep the Scriptures in context and it also allows the Holy Spirit to bring truth to remembrance when you need it from an area in the Bible that usually you just don’t spend a lot of time in… like Nahum. I mean if you can quote a Scripture verse off the top of your head from this book, stop now, and scroll down to the comment box and type it in 😉

I can’t remember who Nahum was or what He wrote… so that means it’s time for me to renew my mind because God no doubt had something important to say through him or he would not be in The Book.

This year I am reading through the Scriptures chronologically, which is the Bible in the order of time in which the events occurred. Yesterday my readings were Genesis 1-3. Earlier that morning I wrote a blog post entitled Speaking from Experience. Within this post is a fifteen minute video of the “older women” of my church. The purpose of the video was to interview these ladies and have them share their wisdom with the “younger women” in our church, you know, fleshing out Titus 2.

I am a firm believer that if we ladies need marital or parenting advice we need not seek it from other young women, but from the “older women” who have the wisdom to guide us with truth and not shared emotion. I am afraid that sometimes we younger women might advice each other to do things we secretly wish we could do ourselves because we might be in the same hard place yet we won’t because we know deep down we can’t or shouldn’t. The whole vicarious living through thing.

Anyway…

I began my chronological read through in Genesis 1-3, and of course those chapters perfectly coincided with where my heart had been that morning… the family… specifically being a wife who loved her husband and loved her children with God’s love, not because I feel like it love. As I read through these chapters I was reminded of God’s ordained plan for me and what sin did to wreck it. I re-read once again the curse upon we women…

To the woman He said,
“I will greatly multiply
Your pain in childbirth,
In pain you will bring forth children;
Yet your desire will be for your husband,
And he will rule over you.” 

Genesis 3:16

Now before I read these verses in Genesis, but after I wrote the blog post that morning… Satan tried to trip me. I have learned that anytime I speak out on any subject, I can guarantee that the opportunity for me to put my money where my mouth is or walk my talk is no doubt going to happen.

If you follow my blog, you know that I have been sick for a while… I have been running a fever all this past week and just feel like cruddy ole crud… and my husband also has not been well, but he had to go to work yesterday anyway. So as I looked out the window at the sunshine and knew that the weather was giving me the perfect opportunity to remove the outside Christmas decorations, I decided to pull myself up off the couch and get a shower and get to work.

In the meantime, my husband came home early from work, in order to attend his Uncle’s visitation service. I came down the stairs, showered and dressed, with an arm load of laundry to start, and planning to get busy removing the last of Christmas 2013 from our house. As I walk by my husband he looks at me and says something like, it’s really beautiful outside today, why don’t you get outside and do something and get some fresh air, I think it will help you feel better.

Remember that this was the very reason I had gone upstairs to shower and dress, but the moment he said that my flesh rose up in rebellion and I just looked at him with I am sure a not so nice look, because he then said, or just go sit outside in the sun for a bit, I didn’t mean you had to work, I just thought the fresh air would do you good.

Oh my how quickly that curse jumps upon us! My first thought to his suggesting me doing what I had already planned to do was to not do it just because he suggested it… why on earth is that? SIN that’s why…ugh, how aggravating it is!

All these thoughts are running through my head and my flesh is crawling up my throat, but I remembered what I earlier wrote and thought about what I would read later and I took a deep breath and instead said, well that’s what I went upstairs to get showered and dressed for… but my flesh still fought hard for control, because before I went outside to tackle the decorations, I opened the back door to let fresh air in, but still piled back up on my love-seat sick bed and covered up in my blankets, because I could justify that action with the fact that I really did feel like cruddy ole crud and I was having to push through that to even get a shower. Needless to say, it took me a little wrestling with my flesh and the Spirit for me to actually attack those decorations.

How quickly it became less about getting some fresh air and taking advantage of some sunshine and more about being obedient to the Word of God and honoring and loving my husband.

There it was staring me in the face… Genesis 3:16 and Ephesians 5:22-24… Friend, have you been there?

“But what do you think? A man had two sons, and he came to the first and said, ‘Son, go work today in the vineyard.’ And he answered, ‘I will not’; but afterward he regretted it and went. The man came to the second and said the same thing; and he answered, ‘I will, sir’; but he did not go. Which of the two did the will of his father?” They said, “The first.” 

Matthew 21:28-31

Speaking From Experience

Thy Word

 

 

One of the burdens that I have on my heart is for the family… for children… for marriages. The Word of God is very clear that in the last days love will grow cold.

Because lawlessness is increased, most people’s love will grow cold. But the one who endures to the end, he will be saved. ~ Jesus (Matthew 24:12-13)

But realize this, that in the last days difficult times will come. For men will be lovers of self, lovers of money, boastful, arrogant, revilers, disobedient to parents, ungrateful, unholy, unloving, irreconcilable, malicious gossips, without self-control, brutal, haters of good, treacherous, reckless, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, holding to a form of godliness, although they have denied its power… (2 Timothy 3:1-5)

One of the reasons for divorce in our day is irreconcilable differences… this ought not to be so in Christian marriages because we have been given the ministry of reconciliation (2 Corinthians 5:16-20).

I fear we live in a day when many have a form of godliness but they have denied its power… as wives and mothers our first working out of our own salvation (Philippians 2:12-21) should be demonstrated within our homes before our husbands and our children. If we cannot speak truth and live out love with them then what we speak and portray before others is hypocrisy. If we cannot live a life without grumbling or disputing within the walls of our home then we really never will in the world…

If we cannot love our husbands and love our children with the love of Christ… then we have never loved at all. If we cannot apply Matthew 5:42-47, Luke 6:35-36, and Romans 12:9-21 to the members of our own house then we are fake if we say we offer it to others.

In this day it’s more popular, even in the “church”, to forsake those that cause us grief rather than to choose to love them in spite of it. When someone cramps our style or makes us feel uncomfortable instead of asking ourselves why this is and asking God how we can learn to love them we just “unfriend” them or write a vague status concerning them or walk out on them or send them to their rooms or cheer when school starts back and we don’t have to deal with them.

It’s easy to show love and feel all “Christian” when it’s just you and a keyboard. But how’s it working out when real live breathing souls are around? This is where we find out if we really trust God… this is where faith is walked by and grace is displayed.

As a new year approaches I pray that we women, we wives, we mothers, will resolve to love our husbands and to love our children and to work out our salvation before them.

If you struggle in this area… it’s time to be real before someone… preferably someone who is wiser, who has been there and done that… and is not afraid to speak truth into you… I suggest you share your struggles with someone who can speak from experience… and if you are that one who can speak from experience… please know that we younger wives and mothers… we desperately need you in this day. So please don’t be silent. Don’t be shy. Don’t think we don’t want to hear what you have to say… even if we act like we don’t… we need you.

Older women likewise are to be reverent in their behavior, not malicious gossips nor enslaved to much wine, teaching what is good, so that they may encourage the young women to love their husbands, to love their children, to be sensible, pure, workers at home, kind, being subject to their own husbands, so that the word of God will not be dishonored.

Titus 2:3-5

Speaking from Experience from Shiloh Baptist Church on Vimeo.

The word of God has been dishonored enough in our day… let us be the generation that remembers that it is holy and good and profitable and worthy of our obedience to it and to Him. Don’t let your love grow cold… keep it hot and on fire… for our God is a consuming fire (Hebrews 12:29). Let His fire refine you and ignite you to love with a love that burns deep and sears the hearts of those around you. Let us love with a love that melts away all deceit and hypocrisy and let us love with real faithful Jesus love. A love that remembers that He gives His Spirit without measure (John 3:34) and if we are truly sent by Him we will speak like Him, live like Him, and love like Him… and let us begin with our husbands and with our children.